res·o·lu·tion
[rez-uh-loo-shuhn]
–noun
1.
a formal expression of opinion or intention made, usually after voting, by a formal organization, a legislature, a club,or other group.
2.
a resolve or determination: to make a firm resolution to dosomething.
3.
the act of resolving or determining upon an action or courseof action, method, procedure, etc.
4.
the mental state or quality of being resolved or resolute;firmness of purpose.
5.
the act or process of resolving or separating into constituentor elementary parts.
6.
the resulting state.
7.
Optics . the act, process, or capability of distinguishing between two separate but adjacent objects or sources oflight or between two nearly equal wavelengths. Compareresolving power.
8.
a solution, accommodation, or settling of a problem,controversy, etc.
I am 29 years old and I can't say that I've ever made a New Year's resolution in my life. I guess I am different than most people (and no, this isn't the first time I have realized this) but I have never believed in saying things. I believe in doing things. Yes, words are very powerful when spoken, written, sung, etc but I am an action girl. Don't say you are going to do something, just complete the steps you need to in order to accomplish the goal you set out to do. Simple as that. Being in the profession that I am, I hate to see the NY resolutions of getting in "shape" and "losing weight" result in overpacked gyms in January and ghost towns in February. I commend these people for doing something because it's better than nothing but the major resolutions like losing weight, being healthy, getting out of debt, spending more time with family, TAKE TIME AND EFFORT! You have to work at them. They don't happen over night. They don't happen because you get lucky.....they happen because you set out goals for yourself, stick with them through hard times, and continuously strived to better yourself and do what it takes within your means to do what you say you are going to do. Don't just let life happen to you....create your own life.
Well, I rambled there and got "off the beaten" path but basically my point is this year, instead of making resolutions......get out a pen a paper, set realistic goals in different areas of your life (career, finances, personal, etc) and then determine what steps you are going to take to achieve them. It wouldn't hurt to tell everyone you know what your goals are or to create a "team" of experts, friends, family, whoever to help hold you accountable.
If you know that every year you buy a years membership to the gym only to use it 20 times all year, then SAVE YOUR MONEY! Try a boot camp, yoga class, running group instead. And don't go with the cheapest service.......go with the one your are most likely to stick with. I can't think of anything more important to invest in than your health. If you want personal training, boot camp or nutrition advice, let me know. Email robyn@bootcampuaustin.com. I can help you or I can refer you.
So what steps are you going to take to accomplish your goals next year???
It is traditional to make New Year's Resolutions. I used to recoil a bit from the idea, because after all, if you make a resolution that means you'll be accountable to it. However,after the glow of the New Year fades, so do those resolutions. Its certainly a good idea to sit back and reflect about the previous year and look at what you have accomplished, and what you would like to see accomplished for the following year.
ReplyDeleteI've decided this year to not only make a list of what I'd like to see happen for the following year,but what I liked about this year as well. Seems easy enough, but here's where the tricky part comes in. I've also decided to add another component that might actually seal the deal. I will also make a small ceremony of "bowing into" the new year and what it has to offer. This is a practice that begins any martial arts activity. It means to completely commit to the moment ahead of you and to keep yourself in the present moment throughout the exercise.
So, this year I will reflect on the past, ponder on the future and "bow into" the New Year!
Kim Patty, CPT
I agree, Robyn. Actions speak MUCH louder than words. I, also, do not make New Year's Resolutions. They are the "words" that are never (for me anyway) followed with "actions". However, this New Year's Day I am resolving to a new life... New Year's Day, and especially with the numeric significance (yeah, i am weird about numbers and colors...) 1/1/11. Is the day I am committing to being (after 26 years) smoke-free. MY purpose in telling everyone IS the accountability... and support! My best example yet??? YOU! thanks for keeping me accountable and for being part of my "troops"...can't wait to get this over with!
ReplyDeletei have a laundry list of things that i've started this year and will continue next year and beyond. I have many additions that i need to get started on to make them part of my life - breaking through the excuses i make for not doing them will be the biggest goal towards moving forward, which is not just a resolution for 2011, but for my life overall.
ReplyDeletethese are awesome guys! great comments...
ReplyDeleteKim - I LOVE your ideas!
Bridgette -I admire you for the courage to change your life and to state boldly to everyone around you that you are taking ACTION to do it!
Jason - Excuses are hard......they hold way to many people back from doing great things. We all make them but realizing when we are and being determined to not let them hold you back....that's where courage and determination come in. You have both! I see good things for you in 2011 Jason!